2026-04-25 18:03 UTC
@Bel_tamtu So many people I used to be close to and did things with seem so busy now. They have families and careers. I don't reaaaally have any fandoms, and am often overwhelmed by discord and group interactions. I never know when or how to contribute.
Thanks for sharing your experience! I do really appreciate it.
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@Bel_tamtu@meemu.org 2026-04-25 22:58
@grim_elsewhere Ah, yeah, that can be so hard. I'm in my 40s and disabled and a lot of people I used to know have families and careers now too. I only manage to stay in touch with people when we both put in effort for it. That goes for online and offline. Some kind of regular activity helps me. Even if it's once or twice a month. Some local friends I only see every few months. They use Facebook and I can't stand that site.